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Treasures from the Little Red Notebook
Welcome to the Treasures from the Little Red Notebook, a collection of bold reflections, lived experiences, and neurodivergent perspectives.
Here, we write from the edges where thought meets feeling, where self-awareness becomes strategy, and where being different is not a hurdle but a horizon.
Each piece invites you to pause, question, and grow, in work, in life, and in the quiet space between.
Thought Leadership


The Restructure Nobody Announced
Somewhere in the last three years, your organisation was restructured. There was no announcement. No consultation paper went out. No boxes moved on the chart. The restructure happened one decision at a time, made by people who did not think of themselves as making structural decisions at all. A report drafted differently. A check that quietly stopped being performed.
SJ Greaves
Jul 245 min read


Presence Leadership
In this series I have written about what changes when organisations stop managing change and start navigating it. One of those changes concerns the leaders themselves, and I described it this way. The leadership posture changes. Leaders stop performing certainty and begin operating from presence. They become willing to say, in front of their teams, that they do not yet know what comes next, and they remain visible inside that not-knowing rather than retreating from it. The ro
SJ Greaves
Jul 38 min read


Built to Replace
In an earlier piece in this series, I wrote that people are no longer afraid of AI. They are afraid of being treated like AI. They are afraid of being measured, optimised, and quietly made replaceable inside systems built for throughput rather than humanity.
SJ Greaves
Jul 39 min read


Be you and do
There is a phrase I keep returning to, and I have learned to trust it more the longer I work. Be you and do. Four words, and most people hear them as encouragement, the kind of line that belongs on a wall in a co-working space. Listen closer and the phrase is making a structural claim about where capability comes from, and the claim is precise. When you act from your authentic space, the work carries a force it cannot carry any other way.
SJ Greaves
Jun 115 min read


In Search of Real
For most of my working life I have asked the same question of organisations. Is this real? It is a structural question, not a moral one. I am not asking whether the people involved are sincere. I am asking whether the strategy corresponds to how decisions actually get made, whether the values statement holds under pressure, whether the behaviour described in the leadership policy bears any resemblance to what happens on the floor.
SJ Greaves
May 511 min read


Change Management is Failing. Change Navigation is What Comes Next.
In the last article I wrote that change in 2026 is no longer something organisations do, it is the condition they operate inside. The piece described the shift, named what the workforce is now seeing, and made the case that the old playbook cannot meet the people it was designed for.
SJ Greaves
May 16 min read


What Neurodivergent-Designed Systems Actually Do Differently
When people hear “neurodivergent-designed systems,” they often assume it means more flexibility, more accommodation, or more tolerance. That’s not it. Neurodivergent-designed systems don’t start with people. They start with structure.
SJ Greaves
Jan 303 min read


The Space Between the Space
Every system has edges. Every process has pauses. Every life has thresholds. And most people stare so hard at the structure, they miss the rhythms that animate it, the subtle intelligence that lives not inside the pattern, but in the intervals that hold the pattern together.
SJ Greaves
Nov 18, 20253 min read


Welcome to the Machine: Change Management in 2026 and Beyond
Change used to be a project plan and a timeline. A neat Gantt chart pinned to a wall. Executives gathered around tables, nodding at boxes and arrows while quietly praying the humans involved would simply comply. Then the world cracked open.
SJ Greaves
Nov 13, 20253 min read


The Extinction of Empathy
Empathy used to be our most advanced technology. Before we built machines that could predict behaviour, we had the human heart, capable of perceiving suffering, extending compassion, and imagining what another life might feel like.
Now, that capacity is eroding. Slowly. Systematically. And, most disturbingly, with our consent.
SJ Greaves
Nov 7, 20255 min read
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